alas, he lived in another state.
anyhow, he tells me his "fiance" died. i mean, that is really really totally tragic. i mean that. he says she had an aneurysm.
then within about 3 minutes, he hits me up for money. "did you ever donate your father's money to a charity"
i mean, come ON. i FEEL for the person... no one deserves to lose the one they love.
and i feel bad for him.
it is just, since i didn't even know he was ENGAGED or anything, and i don't know him in person at all, and stuff like that, the answer must be no.
he before asked me to ask around to help him find a tenured position in boston. i asked around. it didn't help. i didn't hear from him again until the other day.
does this sound cold hearted? mean? insensitive?
---- brain cancer girl
ps: please, no freaks.